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My parents got divorced when I was very young.
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You’re a serial monogamist and always act like you know it all.You need unreasonable levels of reassurance that “everything is alright” that you’re “good enough,” “hot enough,” and the list goes on.In your relationships, you’re as jealous and over-protective and you try to trigger your partner into being.You like inciting jealousy and any other reactions that display the effect that you have on men.
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It’s like losing a family member and a lover all in one. You feel like you “own” him even after the relationship has ended. This can result in continuing to go back to your ex (emotionally, physically, or both), sleeping with your ex, continuing to feel like you have a say in what and who he does, etc. They cause a ton of collateral damage and you find yourself needing to seek validation from your ex like you need to breathe oxygen. Breakups aren’t just devastating for you, they’re catastrophic.You’re a validation junkie and can never get enough. If you’re dating someone, you have this thing where you need to make it known to your boyfriend that you’re “in demand.” You even seek the validation of other men when you’re with a good guy (which never lasts).
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This also happens if you feel like Dad didn’t protect you. You don’t trust because you subconsciously trusted Dad and he hurt you/didn’t meet your expectations/didn’t accept you/didn’t validate you/loved you conditionally/abandoned you/emotionally starved you, etc. You have a really hard time trusting any guy that you’re with.If the relationship that you have with yourself sucks, your dating life can best be described as a trailer for a self-help workshop, and if you continue to have “bad luck” with men… chances are it started with the relationship (or lack of a relationship) with Dad or a significant male/paternal figure from your childhood. You don’t love yourself and because of this, you can’t implement boundaries because you always feel guilty for doing so.(I’ve had/embodied every one of these at one time or another in my life) You never feel like it’s the “right” relationship unless you’re feeling insecure, competitive, and jealous like you have something to “chase after” and “prove.” You gravitate toward relationships that “keep you on your toes,” instead of relationships that are mutual, meaningful, and solid. It creates an illusory feeling of comfort due to the familiarity but also, it creates a underlying feeling of dis-ease in your relationships (which is why you’re always giving and trying to be “good enough”). This can quickly become an addictive pattern. You subconsciously attract (and are attracted to) men that highlight any unresolved issues that you have in both the relationship and/or lack thereof, with your Father or a significant male figure from your childhood. If you’re attracted to emotionally unavailable and/or narcissistic men, you most likely have daddy issues. When it comes to girls with daddy issues… Daddy issues are just as prevalent in women who have a Dad that was and is present. Daddy issues aren’t something that’s only reserved for women with absentee, abusive (emotionally or physically) or disloyal fathers. He was never abusive and we have incredible memories together. I have a Dad who was consistently present growing up. Since it’s Father’s Day today, this whole week I’ve been thinking about my own daddy issues, how they’ve affected me, why they’ve haunted me for so long, and really, why the I even had such deep daddy issues in the first place. For a while now, I’ve wanted to post a photo of my parents and title the blog post “A Photo of Everyone I’ve Ever Dated.” I’m not sure about that exact approach, but I’m definitely going to write a post about dating versions of our parents soon because it’s one of those things where once you make the connection, your relational life is never the same.